Before I first launched this site, I had already owned the url for over two years. I had everything I needed to get started, but if you came by during that time, all you would have seen was a ‘coming soon’ page. I waited all that time because I didn’t yet understand the incredible importance of taking the first step, or what I call going from 0 to 1.
For over two years I knew that I wanted to build this blog. I knew what I wanted to write about, and clearly, I even knew what I wanted to call it. But I hesitated to actually take the first step. I was fixated on all the reasons I wasn’t ready:
- My writing wasn’t as good as it could be yet
- I didn’t know exactly what I wanted the site to look like
- I had no idea how to manage, market, or promote my own website
In a sense, these reasons were all true. But they were still excuses, and I was letting those excuses define me. And of course, waiting didn’t fix any of them.
It wasn’t until I published my first blog post and started sharing it around that everything started to change. The blog started to grow, and I grew with it. Suddenly, I was learning constantly, building up new skills, reaching milestones, and discovering goals that lay ahead. But none of that would have been possible without taking the first step.
The Importance of Taking the First Step
After two years of waiting to be “ready” to launch my blog, I didn’t feel any closer to ready. My writing didn’t improve. I learned nothing about marketing, SEO, graphic design, or anything else the job entails.
None of that happened until I took a deep breath and went from 0 to 1. It wasn’t until I took that critical first step that I began my journey of learning, growing, and building this website from the ground up. It’s a journey that I’m overjoyed to say I’m still on.
Do you think this is the original version of this blog post that you’re reading? You should have seen the first version I published, it was a mess!
I wrote this post in the very first month after launching my blog, because even then, in the first couple of weeks, I was already seeing the incredible importance of taking the first step.
Set Things in Motion
What’s the next big thing in your life? Are you going to pick up some new healthy habits or pay off all your debt? What about advancing in your career, or finally starting that side hustle?
Whatever it is, I promise you that you will not get there if you don’t start.
Stop shopping for running gear, looking at refinancing options, or planning your next move. Go from 0 to 1. Make that move:
- Go for a run
- Launch your side hustle
- Write the first chapter of your book
- Throw $100 in Sallie Mae’s dumb, annoying face and say “keep the change!”
The rest comes after, not before.
Let yesterday be your last day of saying “I’m going to do it,” and let today be your first day of saying “I’m doing it.”
It will probably be messy. You will make mistakes. You will stumble, you will learn, you will grow, and you will win. But not before you start. So start.
Live without Regret
What do people regret most when they look back on their lives? Do they regret what they went out and experienced, the things they tried, lessons they learned, or the shots they took?
With the serene clarity of hindsight, we all come to realize that the greatest regrets all rhyme with “would”:
- The business you could have started
- The experiences you would have tried
- All the time you should have spent with loved ones
Pick up something you want to do someday, and tell yourself, “Not Someday. Today.” You will not regret starting. Fear tells you you will regret it, but fear is not in charge today. You are.
After you start, the only regret you will have is that you didn’t start sooner. So don’t delay.
No matter what your thing is, you don’t have to win it today. You don’t have to finish it. Hell, you don’t even have to do a very good job. You just have to START. Going from 0 to 1 is the most important step of every journey. Taking the first step gives you every step that comes after it.
Starting the Journey
What Prevents Us from Taking the First Step?
Taking the first step toward a big goal or life change may sound easy to some, but those who have tried know it’s anything but.
Embarking on a new journey brews a delightful soup of fear, anxiety, and self-doubt because new things tend to make us uncomfortable. They can trigger any number of worries:
- What if I fail?
- What if I’m not good enough?
- Am I really ready?
- Am I jumping the gun?
- What else can I do to prepare?
Anxieties like these are totally normal. This is our emotions trying to protect us from failing at something we really care about. The problem is, the only guaranteed way to fail at something is to never try at all.
This fear holds us back from starting big new things based on the false belief that there will be a better time, when there is no risk. But there will be no perfect time. There is always risk.
Fear, anxiety, and self-doubt are simply the keepers of the gate between you and your dreams. If you give them permission to stop you, they will. Right now is the best time to push past the fear and take the first step.
You’ll never finish what you don’t start, and you can’t get better at something you haven’t tried.
Start messy, start ugly, start wobbly. Whatever it takes to get moving is worth it in the end. The learning, the growing, the improving, all kicks into gear once you have made that leap.
You don’t have to be perfect to start, and no one is asking you to. Except maybe that fearful voice in your head, but we’re done with that voice for now anyway. You’ll find everything you need as you go along.
Embrace the feeling of being messy and imperfect when you’re first getting started. It’s not something to be ashamed or embarrassed about. To me, that moment is a mark of pride. It is the moment that you pushed past fear and went from 0 to 1.
This is the first milestone on your timeline. You’ll one day be able to look back on it and revel in how far you’ve come. Don’t rob yourself of that amazing opportunity by holding off any longer.
Start messy. You’re ready.
Take the First Step Right Away
Going from 0 to 1 is the single most important step in achieving your goals and fulfilling your dreams. Next to the incredible importance of taking the first step, nothing else matters. Until you cross the starting line, you will never be able to multiply your results because 0 multiplied by anything is still 0.
This is the one step that enables every other step. Don’t listen to the voices that say you aren’t ready. I promise you, you are. Now get out of here and go take that first step!